“Please forgive my ignorance but how should I adress you ?”
“To me or Lady Kveltrild ?” Duinn asked and the elf dipped his head at Kveltrild with utter respect.
When Kveltrild first met the hobbits, there was a lot of gossip in the Shire about her beard. The lovely and hardworking hobbits she met were quite curious about her, yet they were keeping their curiosity to themselves.
When Kveltrild travels to the lands of men, she keeps her gender in disguise. That is why she is known as “Master Amberbraid” amongst some with whom she trades with!
I think the elves will be calling her “lady” as she has been already introduced to them as such.